Mrs Jan Young

Cremation Service: Thu 28th Mar 2024

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Young: Jan Wear (née Mather), of Edinburgh, formerly of Sandbed, Hawick, sadly and unexpectedly at her home on Tuesday, 5th March, 2024, loving wife and best friend of Andy, precious mummy to Fern and Grace, adored daughter of Maisie and Dougie, cherished sister of Douglas, Chandra and Jared, treasured daughter in law to Reg and Barbara, beloved aunt of Theo, Kharim and Seb, dearest sister in law to Cat and Fran, and a friend to countless, a true presence whose laughter will be remembered by so many. Service to be held at Borders Crematorium on Thursday, 28th March, at 11am, All welcome and encouraged to join family, friends and colleagues thereafter to Buccleuch Arms, St Boswells, to remember Jan’s life.
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Cremation Service

Location

Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA

Date & Time

11:00am Thu 28th Mar 2024

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Christina wrote

28th Mar 2024

Sending you all my deepest condolences and love. X

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Mark wrote

28th Mar 2024

Andy and family, Jan was an absolutely amazing woman and a bubble of joy to be with, made all the better by you and the girls. She will be sorely missed by everyone who knew her. Thinking of you all at this difficult time. Love and best wishes, Mark and Claire

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Jenni wrote

28th Mar 2024

Sending all my love to the Young and Mather families. There will forever be a special place in my heart for all of you, and our lovely Jan.

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Michelle wrote

28th Mar 2024

Sending my love and thoughts to Andy, girls and family today. Will be thinking of you all . One special lady taken far too soon Xx

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Amy wrote

28th Mar 2024

Sending my deepest condolences to Andy, Fern, Grace, Jan's family and friends. Jan was magnificent force, 100% authentic, a wonderful friend and someone who genuinely brightened up the whole room. I was lucky enough to be one of Jans friends, and that's how I will forever feel, lucky to have known her and to see her so happy being a wife and mother. You're all in my thoughts and prayers xx - Amy, David and Olivia

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Francesca wrote

27th Mar 2024

Sending much love to Andy, Fern , Grace & the whole family. Jan was always a shining star & brought a smile to my face on many occasions with her wicked sense of humour. She was the selfie queen . She will be greatly missed especially on Zoom calls . So sorry for your loss . She was a very special lady & wee friend x

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Claire wrote

27th Mar 2024

Andy, I am so very sorry for your loss. Jan will be so missed by all her friends and colleagues that worked alongside her at the bank. She always brought the fun and a little touch of naughtiness which we all loved her for. Sending love to you, beautiful Fern and Grace and all of the wider family xxx

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Jan wrote

26th Mar 2024

Dear Andy I was so saddened to hear of your beloved Jan’s passing from a fellow Edinburgh Grand friend. My interest in your loving family has been through Barbara with whom I sang for years. Her wonderful family messages on Facebook have always been a delight to catch up on and so I can understand the dreadful loss that you all are facing at this time. I send my sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathy. Kindest regards, Jan Robertson

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Gilly wrote

26th Mar 2024

It is so difficult to find the words to express the loss of a most beautiful, clever, witty friend who was motivated by family . My deepest sympathies go to all those who loved Jan best and especially to Andy, Fern and Grace and also to Jan’s parents, siblings and parents in law . Hopefully the passage of time will give way to a treasure chest of wonderful, happy memories . Sleep tight my dear friend xxxxx

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Lauren wrote

21st Mar 2024

Will miss you so so much pal 😔xxx

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Lisa wrote

21st Mar 2024

My sincerest sympathy to you all. I'm thinking of you all. Jan will be missed so much forever. All my love, Lisa shine

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Iain wrote

21st Mar 2024

Wishing you the strength for what lies ahead and the love to support each other. You're in thoughts and hearts.

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Danni wrote

21st Mar 2024

Sending so much love and strength to Jan’s family right now. We are so unbelievably sorry to hear of this devastating news.

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Kirsty wrote

20th Mar 2024

In utter shock, so sad for your wee family Jan!! Always the life and soul , loved our time living together in corstorphine x x

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Catherine (Cat) wrote

20th Mar 2024

I’m so sorry for your loss, Jan would call me her “wee pal” the memories I have working with Jan I will cherish, not a week went by without us catching up. Jan always had a way of making me laugh, she was incredibly strong, bright, super confident & immensely proud of her family. Jan wasn’t just a work colleague, she was my friend, I'm going to miss her dearly. Sending so much love to Andy, Fern & Grace & all of the family, Cat Xx

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Lynsey wrote

20th Mar 2024

I am so sorry to hear about Jan’s passing. We worked together for a number of years in the bank and she will be greatly missed for her laughter and positive nature. Sending love and best wishes to you all Lynsey Sheppard

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Bob wrote

20th Mar 2024

To All Jan's family and freinds, I can't comprehend the shock ypu must be feeling at such a young and sudden loss. As a family freind I have watched Jan grow from a young kid into a loving mother and wife, living her life to the full. She will be missed by many. I urge you at this sad time to recall the joy she brought and remember her fondly as hard as these days are. Apologies I can't make the service but I will contact family in due course. Love to you all. Bob.

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Claire wrote

20th Mar 2024

I am absolutely devastated to hear this Jan. You were such a bundle of joy and an absolute to joy to know and work with. Sending so much love to your family and babies. Shine bright.

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