Professor Morag Timbury
Mortonhall Crematorium Pentland Chapel
30B Howdenhall Road
Date & Time
2:30pm Tue 15th May 2018
Leave a message of condolence
4th May 2018
I genuinely regret your loss.I am convinced that no one better than God, understands the depth of your pain and can help you cope with your disquieting thoughts.Please believe the words of Psalm 34:18 “Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart, and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.”Until the blissful day of resurrection comes, may you receive God’s peace that excels all thought, so that it will guard your hearts and your mental powers to be strong in the days ahead. (Psalm 37:29; John 5:28, 29)
3rd May 2018
Remembered with kindness and thanks
Attending a funeral FAQs
What should I wear?
We normally associate wearing black with going to a funeral. But it is increasingly typical for families to express a preferred dress code. Our advice is to look out for information from the family in a notice published either in newspapers, online or in the funeral director window to advise you of their preference.
How long does a service last?
Typically a service in most churches or crematoria lasts around 20-30 minutes. A formal mass may take a little longer and we would expect this to be nearer an hour. Finally, burials can vary in length as they are weather dependent.
What's the rule about shaking hands with the family?
There is no "rule" as each funeral is different. The key is to be guided by the family. Often the celebrant leading the service will clarify if a line-up is expected after the service or at a separate event later. Do bear in mind that if the service was well attended, timescales may dictate what sort of line-up can be done. For our funerals, we can provide attendance cards for mourners to express their condolence which are collated for the family to read at a later date.
Where should I sit?
Family and close friends typically reserve the first couple of rows in a service. We recommend sitting nearer the front than the back of a service space in order to support the family and enabling late arrivals to discreetly fill back rows.
Where should I send flowers?
Often a family will express a preference for flowers - or charity donations in lieu of flowers. We recommend you keep an eye on notices posted in newspapers, or online or in the funeral director window so you are able to follow their wishes.